A 501 (C) 3 Public Charity: Founded-September, 1996 -John 15:16  
          'Locked Up But Not Locked Out Of God's Love and Protection '
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Conduct

We are GUESTS at the facilities in which we serve. Accordingly, our conduct must be above reproach and that includes our wearing apparel. We are representing Jesus Christ.

As a volunteer there is some paperwork that needs filling out but it is not difficult and we will coordinate that effort with our volunteers.

Below are two Standards of Compliance They constitute the conduct rules and regulations of the center and 'IYM'. There will be no deviation from the published rules. If you have a concern or question one of the board members MUST be contacted. We will do NOTHING that is not  in strict compliance with the rules and regulations of the centers serviced under the 'IYM' banner. This is a non negotiable tenant of the 'IYM' ministry

Two other issues of GREAT IMPORTANCE: While we understand that from time to time we all find ourselves 'running late' WE MUST BE MOST PUNCTUAL in keeping our commitments to arrive at the centers at the time prescribed. Habitual lateness cannot be accepted by the centers nor IYM. If you are going to be late or absent YOU MUST contact us. See the 'Contact' Page.

The other issue is social web sites. We recognize that these sites are convenient for those who wish to communicate to vast numbers of folks. THEY HAVE NO PLACE IN DEALING WITH DETAINED PERSONS. Simply stated, Center Management does not want any information on social network sites' end of story. This also means that volunteers may not 'tweet', post (or whatever) any specifics concerning their involvement with a facility wherein 'IYM' is the Spiritual enrichment provider.

Standards of Compliance-

do&don’t Chaplain.doc

CALUMET/LINCOLN CENTERS DO’S & DON’TS CHAPLAIN SUMMARY

  • RESIDENTS ARE YOUNG MEN OR YOUNG WOMEN- NOT BOYS OR GIRLS.

  • STAFF ARE STAFF---NOT GUARDS,’SCREWS’ OR ANYTHING ELSE.

  • DO NOT ARGUE WITH STAFF OR SECURITY AT ANY TIME. IF THERE IS A PROBLEM BOB KIRBY WILL INTERVENE.

  • THIS IS NOT A PRISON---IT IS A RESIDENTIAL TREATMENT or DETENTION CENTER.

  • NO KNIVES. ONE PEN FOR RECORDING PRAYER REQUEST-KEEP TRACK OF IT. PUT YOUR KEYS AWAY.

  • DO NOT LISTEN TO CONFESSIONS---WE DO NOT WANT TO KNOW WHY THEY ARE HERE. LEGAL ISSUE.CONTACT BOB KIRBY FOR FOLLOWUP WITH CENTER.

  • NEVER GIVE YOUR ADDRESS OR ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION. NO CORRESPONDING WITH RESIDENTS.

  • NO PERFUME---NO SHORTS OR TANK TOPS (THAT MEAN’S GUYS AND GALS)---

NO HEAD GEAR---RAP MUSIC---LIQUOR---CELL PHONES OR BEEPERS. ALSO, NO CAPRI’S,SANDALS, SPANDEX OR SLEEVELESS SHIRTS(SPECTRUM RULES). NO CAMERAS. Jackets, coats, and clothing with hoods are not permitted. Please place these items in a locker.

  • NO INAPPROPRIATE LANGUAGE.

  • BE NATURAL--DON’T TRY TO CON THE YOUNG MEN---THEY WILL SEE RIGHT THROUGH A ‘CON’.

  • DON’T GUESS---ASK!!! LET’S REPEAT-DON’T GUESS---ASK!!!

 

  • Please be on hand at Calumet or Lincoln Center on your assigned day ready to minister PROMPTLY at the time prescribed. After signing in, go to the 'Visitation' area in the front of the building For the most part we only have an hour so promptness is essential. IF YOU ARE UNABLE to keep your appointed time please call 'Bob' at 586-381-0003. 
  • Please record each resident's FIRST name and the first initial of the last name and a prayer request. The chaplain should record the prayer request. The prayer request usually is recorded at the end of the session but is not mandatory; can be at sign in. PLEASE, every resident should have a prayer request or praise.

 

  • Teams: We usually minister to a resident for approximately 10-12 minutes unless the volume of residents is light. The 10-12 minute guideline ensures that we can see a total of 35 residents in an hour.

    • Social Network Sites: We recognize that these sites are convenient for those who wish to communicate to vast numbers of folks. THEY HAVE NO PLACE IN DEALING WITH DETAINED PERSONS. Simply stated, ‘Center Management does not want any information on social network sites'; end of story. This also means that volunteers may not 'tweet', post ( or whatever) any specifics concerning their involvement with a facility wherein 'IYM' is the Spiritual Enrichment provider. THIS MEANS THE FACILITY NAME AND ADDRESS AS WELL!!!

ONE LAST REMINDER: We are here to BIBLICALLY counsel; we are not psychologists. We are never to recommend any action that could be detrimental physically and/or mentally to a resident e.g.: 'fasting'. While fasting is biblical it can be harmful to residents. If in doubt...DON'T DO IT; contact the undersigned.

 

May God bless you mightily for the gift of your time to the residents!

 

Bob & Jennie Kirby

586-978-8753 (H); 586-381-0003 (Ministry Cell Phone)

---WE ARE NOT HERE TO INTERVENE WITH THE SYSTEM FOR THESE YOUNG MEN; WE ARE NOT HERE TO ADOPT OR FOSTER THESE YOUNG MEN. WE ARE HERE TO GIVE THEM THE GOSPEL MESSAGE—PLEASE DON’T FORGET OUR PURPOSE IN BEING HERE AND GO OFF ON YOUR OWN.

Welcome to Calumet/Lincoln Centers

Calumet & Lincoln Center welcomes all visitors. This is a juvenile justice facility; following safety and security procedures and the wearing of modest apparel will facilitate you in having a comfortable visiting experience.

WE REQUEST THAT YOU OBSERVE THE FOLLOWING RULES DURING YOUR VISIT:

1. Please do not visit under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Visitors determined to be under the influence will not be allowed to visit.

2. Please do not use loud or profane language. Visitors who are verbally or physically abusive towards youth or staff will not be allowed to visit.

3. Please wear modest clothing. Visitors may not wear spandex or tight stretch pants, short and! or revealing dresses or skirts and may not wear shorts when visiting. Halter tops, tank tops, see through clothing, low cut tops, and sleeveless shirts and blouses are not permitted. Ladies must wear bras. Bare shoulders and bare midriffs are not permitted. Visitors wearing clothing that does not meet these facility requirements will be given a visitor's smock to wear while visiting.

4. Jackets, coats, and clothing with hoods are not permitted. Please place these items as directed

5. Head gear, with the exception of religious head gear, is not allowed.

Visitors failing to comply with any visiting rule will have their visit terminated.

CONTRABAND

Visitors are not allowed to bring any items into the visiting areas. All personal items must be left in your vehicle or in a provided locker. Visitors found bringing weapons or contraband (drugs, alcohol, tobacco products, lighters, matches, pornography, money, etc.) into Calumet/Lincoln Center will have their visit terminated. If contraband is of an illegal nature, law enforcement will be called and the visitor will be arrested and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

GRIEVANCE PROCEDURES

If you have a complaint, there is a Grievance Procedure available to you. You may access this procedure by contacting the Shift Supervisor on duty or your youth's Clinical Case Manager or Detention Assessment Worker.

 

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New Chaplain Intake & Processing Rules Effective 7/28/2013

We are modifying how we go about in-taking potential new chaplains effective this date. 

Previously, all paperwork including rules, regulations and Spectrum forms were given a candidate at once. The candidate brought back the completed forms and we assigned them to a mentor chaplain until we felt them ready to solo. There was no interim process wherein we interviewed the candidate to ensure adherence to policies & procedures. The person in question was allowed to shadow for a short time until the paperwork was completed.

 

Under the new method, the candidate receives all the rules & regulations first. They must come back and tell us they are in agreement with the policies & procedures and one of the on-site IYM directors will interview them. If found satisfactory, the candidate will be given the IYM/Spectrum paper to fill out: a badge will be ordered and a shirt put aside. Upon satisfactory completion of the paperwork the candidate will be assigned a mentor chaplain and the process will continue as in the past. The candidate may be permitted to shadow during the process for a brief period but will not be considered an IYM member until the steps outlined have been satisfactorily completed.

 

 

All IYM Personnel, 

Please be aware that if you plan on bringing visitors to a center you must have them sign a PREA form prior to them having access to the residents. During Chaplain Visits or Worship services this has not been an issue since the writer is present and has the visitor execute the document. Where we have run into the issue is during bible studies when the writer is not present. 

While we want to encourage visitation for potential IYM volunteers the PREA signoff protocol must be observed as this is a Federal Mandated Procedure. The writer must have the signed document ‘in hand’ prior to a visitor having access to residents. 

Thank you for your co-operation. 

Bob Kirby-IYM Administration

 

 

 

 

 

What Is Ministry To IYM**

  • The Foundation Of Ministry is Character

  • The Nature Of Ministry Is Service

  • The Motive of Ministry Is Love

  • The Measure Of Ministry Is Sacrifice

  • The Authority Of Ministry Is Submission

  • The Purpose Of Ministry Is The Glory Of God

  • The Tools Of Ministry Are The Word Of God And Prayer

  • The Privilege Of Ministry Is Growth

  • The Power Of Ministry Is The Holy Spirit

  • The Model Of Ministry Is Jesus Christ

**By Permission of Elder Charleston Day-The R.O.A.D. Church

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Statement of Faith

Pastor Bill Whetstone-Spiritual Director

The statement of faith which will govern the 'IYM' organization is here provided by Spiritual Director Emeritus Pastor Bill Whetstone:

                                I.Y.M. ARTICLES OF FAITH

 We, therefore, deem belief in the following :

.1. In one God—the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. 2. We believe in Jesus Christ, the Second Person of the Triune Godhead; that He was eternally one with the Father; that He became incarnate by the Holy Spirit and was born of the Virgin Mary, so that two whole and perfect natures, that is to say the Godhead and manhood, are thus united in one Person very God and very man, the God-man. We believe that Jesus Christ died for our sins, and that He truly arose from the dead and took again His body, together with all things appertaining to the perfection of man’s nature, wherewith He ascended into heaven and is there engaged in intercession for us3. We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Third Person of the Triune Godhead, that He is ever present and efficiently active in and with the Church of Christ, convincing the world of sin, regenerating those who repent and believe, sanctifying believers, and guiding into all truth as it is in Jesus.

 

.2. That the Old and New Testament Scriptures, given by plenary inspiration, contain all truth necessary to faith and Christian living. inerrantly revealing the will of God concerning us in all things necessary to our salvation, so that whatever is not contained therein is not to be enjoined as an article of faith.

 

.3. That man is born with a fallen nature, and is, therefore, inclined to evil, and that continually.

 

.4. That the finally impenitent are hopelessly and eternally lost.

 

.5. That the atonement through Jesus Christ is for the whole human race; and that whosoever repents and believes on the Lord Jesus Christ is justified and regenerated and saved from the dominion of sin.

 

 6. We believe that Jesus Christ, by His sufferings, by the shedding of His own blood, and by His death on the Cross, made a full atonement for all human sin, and that this Atonement is the only ground of salvation, and that it is sufficient for every individual of Adam’s race. The Atonement is graciously efficacious for the salvation of the irresponsible and for the children in innocency but is efficacious for the salvation of those who reach the age of responsibility only when they repent and believe.

 

.7. That the Holy Spirit bears witness to the new birth, and also to the entire sanctification of believers.

 

.8. We believe that entire sanctification is that act of God, subsequent to regeneration, by which believers are made free from original sin, or depravity, and brought into a state of entire devotement to God, and the holy obedience of love made perfect.

 

9. We believe in the Church, the community that confesses Jesus Christ as Lord, the covenant people of God made new in Christ, the Body of Christ called together by the Holy Spirit through the Word.

 

10. That our Lord will return, the dead will be raised, and the final judgment will take place. . We believe that the Lord Jesus Christ will come again; that we who are alive at His coming shall not precede them that are asleep in Christ Jesus; but that, if we are abiding in Him, we shall be caught up with the risen saints to meet the Lord in the air, so that we shall ever be with the Lord.

 

 

Bible Study

 


Teaching Guidelines
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What Can You Do To Help? 

·        We covet your prayers as we take on more of God’s calling to these centers.·       

·        We pray for monetary donations to purchase needed study guides, bibles and the like. 

We trust that the Lord will provide as He always has and that He will be pleased with our

endeavors. 

Direct any questions to the writer. 

By: Bob Kirby-Administrator

 

 

 

Biblical Clarifications

From time to time there is a need for biblical clarification to some of the questions asked by the youth.

The clarifications are provided by the Spiritual Director.
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Suicide/ Bullying Proclamations

 

If a resident makes a chaplain aware of thoughts of suicide or that they are being bullied the chaplain is to inform the IYM manager on duty AFTER the resident has left the area. The IYM manager is then to inform the center Facility Manager or designated supervisor.

 

 

 

Treatment Stages

 

To better understand the treatment stages:

The Seven Stages of Treatment

 These seven stages of treatment are designed to facilitate a step-by-step process in which each stage builds upon personal knowledge gained from the previous treatment stages.

Each treatment stage also explores how a residents’ substance abuse played a part in shaping their thinking errors and delinquent behavior.  Therapists use several varied therapeutic tools and techniques during each therapy stage to help residents change their erroneous thinking patterns.

Stage
Orientation

Stage
Engagement

Substance Abuse Step

Step Purpose
Orientation

I

Committing Offense

1

Powerlessness

II

Autobiography

2-3

Humility & Reaching Out

III

Trauma Connections

4-5

Introspection & Admission

IV

Delinquent, Sexual & Substance Disclosure & Examination

6

Readiness for Change

V

Offense Cycle

7

Readiness for Ongoing Change

VI

Empathy & Restorative Justice

8-10

Making Amends & Immediate Recognition

VII

Relapse Prevention & Reintegration

11-12

Outreach

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